This is not a therapy group, so it is open to folks located anywhere. Group members tend to be mostly neurodivergent, a mix of about 2/3 homeschoolers and 1/3 not. We mostly free chat about whatever the group wants, whether that's queer topics, personal updates, hobbies, current events, or really anything else. As these are not therapy groups, members and facilitator can provide general support and suggestions for dealing with queer-related exploration, learning issues, mental health issues, and so forth, but I cannot provide tailored medical advice as I might in a therapy group. Members often bring photos/videos/etc. to share as well, whether their own creations or just things they enjoyed and thought others might like. When people are interested, we sometimes play games (always free-to-play online games that do not require any particular hardware or software, like Garticphone or Jackbox).
We are completely flexible regarding participation with camera/mic on or off, chat box only, or switching it up depending on comfort level. For safety, I do need members to initially verify on camera that they are the same person each time and do not appear to be an adult. As members tend to be neurodivergent, I try to provide predictability and clear feedback. Particularly if we are playing a game or doing an activity, I let people know clearly for instance whether I expect hand-raising. During interactions, I promote universal social skills -- boundaries, consent, perspective-taking, inclusion, clear communication, self-advocacy, manners, etc. -- but I do not believe in promoting neurotypical communication styles or white/Anglo communication styles over other equally valid communication styles. Youth and parents are very much welcome to let me know if youth have particular types of accommodations or preferred feedback styles that are helpful.
These groups typically have a long waitlist, but I have several immediate openings right now as some members have taken breaks for work/camp/travel/etc. and have opted to go back on the waitlist in the fall.
Groups with current open slots:
- Wednesday 5pm Eastern U.S. time ages 13-18
- Thursday 6pm Eastern U.S. time ages 13-18
- Sunday 4pm Eastern U.S. time ages 13-18
- Sunday 5pm Eastern U.S. time ages 8-12
